by baldmosher » 09 Mar 2009, 12:30
I generally don't give money to beggars. Mainly because it's illegal and I don't think there is any excuse for homelessness. I just don't buy the "I have no choice" bullshit. There's always help for you if you want it. If you're on the streets, you clearly don't want it. Yes I know drug/alcohol addiction is a fucking awful situation for any human being but I'm sorry but I'm not paying for your habit. You have to want to change. It doesn't take much effort to find the nearest Sally Army and wash & shave every day so that you look presentable.
I once had a scruffy old tramp ask me for a quid for some cider. I admired his honesty and gave him a quid.
I once had one of a couple of teenage kids ask me for 50p for the bus. I politely refused and his response was to ask me whether if he searched my pockets, he would find 50p. Being in a slightly quiet area of town, and valuing the remains of my McDonalds meal and my (albeit empty) wallet over my pride, I calmly turned around and walked into the nearest shop before he had chance to find out.
A few years later I had a lad ask me for spare change. I said "sorry mate". Much later that evening the same toerag asked me for change for the phone. I refused again and he followed me down the deserted street giving me shit about how I lied to him earlier cos he heard change rattling in my pockets. I gave as good as I got - I pointed out that I didn't say I had no change, I said sorry because I wasn't going to give him any because he was a low life scrounger. We then entered into a debate about benefits, jobseeking and how he was being a cheeky fooker because he could have just changed the £20 note that he said he had in his pocket from JSA, the daft sod. After following me all the way home he said "do you think it's a good idea showing me where you live" so I called him a cunt and told him to fuck right off and if he came anywhere near my property I would break his face. He left. It's about the only time I've ever threatened violence, but he started it innit.
I once gave 50p to a dude I see around Manchester quite frequently, cos he was beatboxing down the queue for cash. He at least doesn't look like he's a complete waster, although I presume he really is. Much better than sitting on the floor slumped in a heroin-induced bliss with a paper cup held out as I saw so frequently in Dublin. In Manchester most of the regular beggars tend to wear nice shoes so I don't believe any of them are homeless. There's even two twins here who swap shifts. Unbelievable.